Please Don't Call Me Reverend
Please don’t call me “reverend.” “Reverend” is an honorific form of address, and one simply does not use honorifics to speak of oneself. Judges do not introduce themselves, “Hello. I am the honorable Jane Smith.” Why would pastors introduce themselves as “the Reverend John Doe”? And just as I don’t use “Reverend” for myself, I don’t expect you to use it either. I would prefer you did not. Let’s put aside for a moment that “Reverend” is an adjective, not a noun and not a title. “The Reverend Miss Smith” or “the Reverend Doctor Jones” are correct. At least that’s how the English language used the word originally. Of course you’ll find the word used as a title or even as a simple noun in contemporary English. I guess I’m a traditionalist here. But even when used correctly, I still do not want to be addressed or described as “reverend.” The word has an aura of holiness about it. Literally, a person who is reverend is worthy of reverence, a word that I would reserve for God alone. ...